In the scheme of things, each of us should really want to be a complete person, and in order to accomplish that, we are each required to get up and to actually get done through our own efforts, the salient tasks that demonstrate in principle that we have mastered that which needs to be mastered. For instance, if in our lives, we are overly dependent upon other people for this or that, there has got to come that time, when we step up and prove that we are able to do successfully those very things previously done by others, by our own concerted efforts. So too, in virtually every task of import, the objective is not about taking shortcuts, or avoiding that which must be faced; but actually proving ourselves worthy by accomplishing something of notable merit, and thereby fairly earning that prize.
As much as some of us may shy away from the limelight or of responsibility, each of us ultimately has to stand up and be counted for who and what we really are, and those that have not completed all of their tasks, are not qualified to be good members in full standing, because to accept such that have not accomplished such, thereby cheapens that which cannot ever be cheapened. Therefore, as much as we might desire to run and hide, or to try to find those angles that will allow us to somehow get that passing score, the proof of the process is going to have to be done, step-by-step, day-by-day, with integrity; and ultimately through the successful accomplishment of that which we have personally taken responsibility for and thereby have rightly earned.
Indeed, there are no substitutes for each of us running our own race, and that race cannot be successfully finished until we are able to honestly check off, each item, on that master list, without exception, for we cannot ourselves becomes esteemed mentors, while we are still lacking those tools that need to have been mastered successfully in order to fairly apply our craft and thereby to be of valued assistance to those others, that need our guidance; for wholeness requires not just that we be whole, but that all others, that follow us, also become whole.
In other words, each of us most evolve ourselves so as to reach our own individual wholeness, of which, to paint the biggest of pictures, all of us ultimately need to be whole, in order for the canvas to be successfully completed; for every person has their own piece and place in such, or else the panorama remains incomplete and unfinished. Therefore, we have a sacred obligation to become that which we were always neat to be, complete, battle tested, and eternal prepared, for the story that we are all a part of, is never ending, with each of us having our own vital and necessary part to play in the process of becoming that complete whole.
As much as some people wish that things were always easy or that everything always went their way, that is really the wrong perspective, because life is actually about having the opportunity to grow our way back to wholeness, and to achieve that of which we were meant to achieve, so as to thereby fairly earn our wings, so that we can thereby rise up as one and truly see.