There are plenty of people who don’t concentrate much on the living or the dying and pretty much take each day as it comes without further thought. Still, for most of these people, sooner or later, they will subsequently reflect that everybody who is born into this world will, at some point, also die. This means that, for all of us, we need to consider how we should react when someone we know or admire is no longer amongst the living.
Indeed, while death can come suddenly upon any of us, through some form of accident or tragic event, it also can be drawn out over an exceedingly long period of time, such as through an extended illness. The thing about seeing someone dying or that has recently died, is many of us become fixated only upon the death event, which leaves us suitably sad and in remorse, thus consequently having some difficulty in remembering the best of that person, as they were, which is really what we should concentrate our thoughts upon, because it is in the doing that we are defined, thus fairly remembered not just by the people who knew that person, but also by all those that were beneficiaries of their actions, which is why we need to recall all the good that those that have departed this world, accomplished, so that we can provide a better tribute to them, in our mind’s eye and expression, so of.
In life, there are those times which call for reflection, and when someone that we knew has died, this is one of those times in which we need to reflect upon how that person positively affected us and then to express that to others, so that they will have the opportunity to hear our stories, and thus, by our doing this, to demonstrate our homage and our consideration to the dearly departed.
In this world, we will be challenged, and how we address those challenges reflects who and what we really are. When someone who has meant something of significance to us has left this world, we have an inherent obligation not just to remember who they were, but to impart that information to others, so that they will know not just how much that person meant to us, but also learn more of the goodness that our friend represented so that their tale can be heard and remembered.
For each of us, how we live is reflected in our influence on others and the deeds that we have done, which are our fair contribution to the society that we are members of, and since the dead cannot speak for themselves, it is up to each of us to remember them as they were, and to express that to others, so that they will know what they meant to us, and to tell some stories of the good that they have done, thus providing our fair input and honor to those that have fallen in this world, but have risen in the world beyond.