There are all sorts of mantras that people can have as their calling card in this world, and one of the very best has got to be “do the right thing.” That is to say, to do the right thing in everything that we think and subsequently do, no matter the pressure and no matter the circumstances; thus, demonstrating the courage to always do the right thing is the mark of a person of true integrity. For some people, probably most people, we know intuitively what constitutes doing the right thing, for all of us have been gifted with a conscience which lets us know the difference between right and wrong. However, some people come from troubling and trying circumstances so that their internal clock is off balance, or are out of sync through their abuse of drugs or drink, or perhaps they have suffered a debilitating injury; thus, they have difficulty in discerning right from wrong, at least some of the time. The workaround for everyone really comes down to getting the perspective that, were the shoe on the other foot, would we still do what we are contemplating doing. That is to say, if we are prone to believing it’s okay to lie and steal when circumstances seem to warrant such, would we in all honesty feel it was just as right for somebody else to do that same sort of thing to ourselves? That is the question that needs to be asked, so that there is consistency in what we do, and the fair consequences reaped in return.
In actuality, life is not really that complicated; when we make it our point that we will do the right thing, and those who conform to that belief are the same who will not detour off the straight and narrow, and thus progress to the only destination that really matters. On the other hand, those who know the right thing to do, but compromise themselves, often in the knowledge that they won’t be caught, have definitely veered off the straight and narrow and, when they awaken to what they really ought to do and be, will have to battle with forces that they had not previously anticipated to get back to where they need to go.
Indeed, our decisions have consequences, and those who do not fully comprehend this are the same who will learn their lessons the hard way. We are gifted here on earth with free will, and thereby the decisions that we make are ours to own, even when we prefer not to own particular decisions. This signifies that for every wrong step, for every wrong action, there is going to be a consequence. Perhaps the consequence will be no more than a gentle reminder that we need to get back to doing the right thing, or perhaps it will be much more, and those that don’t pay attention to their conscience, which forever does them right, are the same that will have a much more troubling path to getting to where they ought to be. This then is the challenge of life: we can be, in many respects, our worst enemy because we are given agency of what we will do, or how we will react, which thus defines who we are.
Those who make excuses, or count upon mitigating circumstances to absolve them, are the same who have permitted themselves to try to find shortcuts in life. Perhaps there are shortcuts, perhaps not, but the reality is that the shortest distance to that ultimate sanctuary that is forever ours is to do the right thing.