As fallible human beings, each of us is going to make mistakes, for that is part and parcel of human nature. That doesn’t mean that we should desire to make mistakes; it merely indicates that because we aren’t perfect and because we are susceptible to all sorts of character faults, as well as ignorance, that mistakes are pretty much going to be inevitable. Therefore, this signifies that we shouldn’t feel shame when we make a mistake, because everybody, regardless of how much respect we have for that person, mentor, or parent, also makes mistakes or has made mistakes.
The advantage of being young is that young people are typically more willing to try and to experiment with various things and activities that many older people would not dare to attempt. Additionally, older people are quite capable of carrying a grudge for years, or even decades, against an individual; whereas, younger people, though they might say the ugliest thing possible to their friend, are only too willing to forgive and forget the very next day.
The above basically indicates that younger people are simply more flexible and also more forgiving, primarily because their ego is not yet fully developed, and also because they recognize that they are still in the learning stage. This means that when we are young, it is acknowledged by those who are older than us that mistakes pretty much come with the territory, and even those types of mistakes, as in various crimes, are typically treated differently for juveniles than they would be for adults, because this country recognizes that it is a mistake to give up on the youth, too soon, especially for youthful indiscretions that can be subsequently turned around and thereby overcome successfully.
Additionally, the best mistakes are those that serve as object lessons, in which, because we have made the mistake in our youth, and have learned from it, this thus indicates that we aren’t going to make the same mistake when we are older. This signifies that those that do wrong when they are young, but never are punished for it, or caught, may rue the day that they didn’t have to serve justice when they were young, for the same types of wrongs so done when they are older, could conceivably get them into a lot of trouble and thus having to pay a much higher price for their mistake.
Finally, although we seemingly live in an age of “helicopter parents,” it has to be recognized that young people need space to go about their business, and to thus experiment, or put something of personal value at risk, to thereby know the consequences of these actions -- for though mistakes do invariably occur, it is also has to be acknowledged that when there is nothing ventured there thereby is nothing gained, which means that a complaint child in all things isn’t necessarily the best thing, because children need to be taught to think for themselves, and for a certainty, recognize that what they do has consequences, of which not all of those consequences are desired or good, and to thereby learn from this missteps to thus become a better person as an adult.