It would seem that there are plenty of people that hate, and the degree of hatred and vitriol expressed in person or through social media, at the present time, would appear to be getting ever progressively worse. This type of incivility isn’t good for societies, and clearly is a fair reflection that not all is well within America. The thing about hatred, hateful actions, hateful words, and just plain hate, is that this type of emotion doesn’t just come out of nowhere; but rather it has to typically come from deep within a given person’s psyche, and subsequently this is expressed in negative ways through various toxic frustrations that these people apparently aren’t able to deal with, in any good or constructive way.
Yet, none of us are born in hate, or are born to hate. This thus signifies that hatred is a trait that is often developed over some extended period of time, of which, one of the primary driving forces of the hate and vitriol that consumes certain people, is their own pain that they feel deep inside, that thereby cries out for satisfaction, and seemingly does not care how it is quieted, just as long as it is silenced, at least, for some period of time. This is why, therefore, so many people that are themselves hurting and suffering, strike out in such a negative manner towards other people, because they do not know how to effectively treat what is ailing them, so they deliberately find an avenue that will allow them to express themselves in a manner in which they feel powerful for their ability to hurt another and are able therefore to forget their own troubles, at least, for the moment.
This signifies that the people that hate the most, despite whatever façade that they often put on to make themselves appear to be of the norm, are suffering, themselves; signifying that to respond with hate to those that are hateful, isn’t going to do anything of substance to heal the wounds that each party needs to have healed. Most of those that are quite hateful, have a specific frustration, disappointment, ailment, addiction, tragedy, or some combination of these, that they find to be quite overwhelming and intractable, and because they cannot see a way out, or a way to make progress upon these troubles, decide that the most appropriate response to their pain, is to strike out against others, with the hopeful and sick expectation that by doing so, this will create havoc and hurt upon someone else, which they believe will help to alleviate the emptiness and pain that they feel inside.
Those that are hurting are going to turn to whatever that they believe will bring some sort of satisfaction or solace to the hurt that they so have; of which, some of those people will turn to drugs or drink, whereas others, will express themselves in ways that are destructive and hateful. None of these things will deal with the crux of the problem, but instead this will simply postpone for a time, the reckoning that so needs to occur, sooner or later, for those that are in pain, are those that desperately need to find a sensible cure.